Anonymous asked: i remember your post about lolita, and i was curious about the comment you made about the taboo factor of watching young looking porn. im a 19 year old girl, and i feel like i might be sick minded to always look for videos of really young looking girls, flat chested and small, and then older guys. is this gross to be thinking in a way of wanting to see something like that? i just wanted to know your opinion on the whole thing.
Ah right, this post about Lolita. It has actually created a lot of discussion that post… It has over 1500 reblogs so far (which is crazy).
I guess it all depends on what you are looking for in your heart of hearts, are you looking for girls that are specifically under age? If so, that crosses the line. Are you looking for girls that LOOK under age but are actually older, then I guess on a technicality that is fine. I think taboo topics are all about intention. As a general rule is it okay for someone to (for instance) fantasize about fucking their sibling? Sure. Is it kind of messed up? Yeah I guess, but it isnt hurting anyone. Is it okay for that person to make a move on said sibling? No, probably not.
Fantasy and reality are very different things. The only person that will know what your intentions are with your fantasies are you. Some 16 year old girls look waaaay older than 16, is it inappropriate to think about fucking them? Yeah probably, is it sick or horrible or going to hurt someone? Nah. Its all about intent.
Also, keep in mind that if you are 19, fantasizing about a girl that is a couple of years younger than you probably isnt a big deal… It is perfectly acceptable for a 33 year old to fantasize about a 30 year old (or any close age), so this might be something you grow out of as you grow. Fuck knows I certainly am not into the same shit I was into when I was 19.
My final judgement call on this is, if you are just attracted to girls that have flat chests and look young, and you are looking at porn of legal girls and older dudes, then dont worry about it.
If you feel that you are crossing some sort of line with appropriateness, maybe have a chat to someone about it, a mental health professional is probably a good step in the right direction. Remember, there is nothing illegal about thoughts, and seeking help if you need it is perfectly acceptable.
Hope this helps you a little!
other readers, any thoughts?